Friday, November 26, 2010

Re: MisfitsCafe.com - Oh Beverly - I'm So Sorry :(

 

Thank you for your comments my friends and i will pass these along to Beverly. Additionally, today will be Gordie's funeral at 1PM EST, 12PM CST, 11AM MST, 10PST ... so if you would, please honor our dear friend's request below and send a great big virtual hug her way.  ~ Thank You ~
 
 
Beverly asks:
Friends...I would please ask, if you could find it in your hearts (even if you are plowing through the stores searching bargains that when it might come close to 2:00PM AST in your area that if you could think about me for a moment,  say a pray  that I can dig deep and find the strength from somewhere as I have this celebration of Gordie's life and our life together.

 
 
These are the three hymns that are to be played at the funeral.
 
Amazing Grace - Elvis Presley -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3XdXEJEI4E
 
Abide with Me - Voices of The Valley
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Mfumq24RE0
 
God Be With You 'till We Meet Again
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1hvaysA1MYQ
 
 
 
InMemoriam.ca
 

Beverly sent you a link to an announcement on InMemoriam.ca.

Click here to view the announcement


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Joe Standerford of NE wrote:
 
i don't know if this will go to group or just to you steve, please convey my condolences and sorrows to beverly for this very trying time.  am sorry that i don't know her from the man in the moon, but am sure that with your knowledge, she has to be one of the "good ones".  can't imagine life without the love of my life.  was our 27 last Oct. 22.  people, such as beverly and yourself, and nearly half of all others will go through this at some time in their lives.  the strength of your souls attest to the love that has been lost.  may the world look brighter with each new day keeping beverly and gordie in my thoughts - milkman joe
 
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Sandy H of VA wrote:
 
Bev My Heart Goes Out To You I know where U are It is so hard losing your soul mate ..I lost mine over 5 yrs ago  But he is in a better place no pain  He is up in Heaven with my dad picking his guitar playing that old rock & rock lol - Please We are here for You if U need a shoulder.. hugs - sandyh
 
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Duane Richtsmeier of IA said,
 
I too Bev am so very sorry!
I am sending healing and comfort thoughts your way
 
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John O of NY wrote:

Prayers your way, Bev. Sorry for your loss.
 
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Kidcurry of AZ wrote:

Bev like Steve said you are not alone though you may feel that way right now... I am still holding you up in my prayers and I know in the end you will be OK...


On Wed, Nov 24, 2010 at 5:40 AM, Stumpy Steve <ohmy@misfitscafe.biz> wrote:

OH Beverly, i want you to know i'm in tears here. I do feel & know your pain. I lost my Sandy on Valentines Day of 2003 and several other members here have also lost there spouses. Your next few days will be the toughest of all, especially with no other bloodline family ...
 
==> BUT BEVERLY, YOU ARE NOT ALONE !!!
 
Thanks to these computers, we are connected here as one large extended family. I want you know, i'm / we are ALL here for you ... either through the group, personally by email OR you can call me if you wish. I love you and am here ... Remember, with love in our hearts, we are each other's savior. - steve :(
 
Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep - comfort in grief
 

 
On Tue, Nov 23, 2010 at 12:43 PM, Beverly Lewis <beverly@misfitscafe.biz> wrote:

Hi my dear Friends:
I want so much to thank you all for your prayers for Gordie and myself.
 
But, it is with a very lonely, sad, and completely broken heart that I must
tell you I lost my Gordie at 8:15 this morning. Gordie has been through a
lot the last seven months...but never for a moment did I think he would
be called home.
 
We have battled many things together in our married life
but guess this was just too much of a battle for Gordie to overcome. I can
say all the words one hears when a loved one is called home, but right
now in spite of my faith, they ring so empty.
 
I am now alone...my soul mate and loving husband in his way is gone...leaving me
here alone. I feel my purpose in life is over..gone forever...but to live
forever in my heart, in my soul and my being.
 
Gordie was my reason for living, my reason for getting up each day to
take care of him and his needs. What is ahead for me....well, I just don't
know...but will try to hold together until I do right by Gordie.
 
Have all arrangements and plans to make over the day couple of days...so
I might be away for some time.
 
I ask for your prayers selfishly for myself.....I am in need prayers, if you
would be so kind.
 
Love and hugs to all.
 
Bev......
On 23 November 2010 14:05, Margaret Sherrill <celeste@misfitscafe.biz> wrote:

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On Tue, Nov 23, 2010 at 10:39 AM, ^@@^diane <diane@misfitscafe.biz> wrote:

Bev,  My prayers go out to you and Gordie.. May an angel spread thier wings over both of you to protect and give you strength...
 

On Tue, Nov 23, 2010 at 8:24 AM, Hillbilly <wvhillbilly@misfitscafe.biz> wrote:

Will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.
Darrell   

   So get over it
 
 



On Tue, Nov 23, 2010 at 7:20 AM, Joe Azbrujo <azbrujo@misfitscafe.biz> wrote:

Sorry to hear you and Gordie are going through all of that Bev, my prayers are with the both of you, hang in there Sweet Lady!!
 

On Mon, Nov 22, 2010 at 10:28 PM, Beverly Lewis <beverly@misfitscafe.biz> wrote:


Hello all:
Sorry I haven't been around for the past few days but Gordie has not been well....and today
took him by ambulance to hospital.
He is in really quite serious, although they will do everything possible to bring him through..
He has pneumonia in both lungs, oxygen started immediately, possibility of blood clots in right leg (leg of broken
hip) as well as chest, blood counts totally out of control, potassium for one way too high, medication
given to try to lower, is really dehydrated, had trouble inserting IV....10 attempts by
three different RN's....then on the 11th try by another, success. He is black and blue and so many veins
blown but he never said a word.  That is my Gordie...never complains and so mild mannered.
He is so very weak and his colour is not just pale, he is ashen although a little colour was coming back
just before I left....just arrived home a short time ago. Going to do more blood work as well as cat scans
and x-ray's in AM. And no desire to eat, which has been gradually getting worse.
 
Taken from ER to a bed in a special area...only two patients per RN and Gordie's bed is right next to the nursing station and the nurse will keep a close eye and will call if his condition changes. That is one call I definitely don't want to receive.
 
Friends, if you could find it in your heart to send forth some special thoughts and prayers for Gordie's recovery
and return home so we can have a little more  time together...fragile as he might be...I would so dearly
appreciate it. We have been through a lot together...and these past seven months have been very hard on Gordie...
he has been in a lot of pain and discomfort, but kept trying his best to walk again. Also there is a lot of confusion
which is also complicating matters as well. When I am there with him, he looks to me to answer as I have for all these 33 years (October 27th past). So I hate to leave him, but I am going to try to get some sleep (honestly
believe that is not going to happen...can't close my mind off) because maybe there are going to be more rough days
ahead.
 
God bless you all...and if I don't get a chance later on, I want to wish all my American friends  a very happy and blessed Thanksgiving Day on Thursday. Spent time with loved ones,love one another, enjoy each other's company, ...because those moments are precious and we never know when "the present" might become "the past".
 
Thanking you so much.
 
Hugs and love to all.
 
Bev......
 
   
 
 
http://beverlylewis.blogspot.com/
 
 
 
 
 
 
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